Sex for many people feel like a dirty word and talking about it can be pretty uncomfortable, even in the context of marriage. There are a number of practices of love and sexuality in which the Bible is clear, but others that Scripture is silent. In Hebrews we are told that the marriage bed is to be undefiled, it does not say what it means. Because of this, it is difficult to determine what is right and this is wrong. Is it ok to fantasize about your spouse? The best place to go to for the answer is the Bible.
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Is it normal to have sexual fantasies? Is there such thing as a healthy sexual fantasy, or is it always wrong? Please help me, I'm so confused! Thank you for your question. I appreciate the confusion that you are expressing. I think this confusion comes in part because of the bombardment of sexual images and ideas that are presented to us in our culture of sexual permissiveness.
His fantasy: Her with other men
The nature of sexual fantasies is they push the boundaries a bit, letting you imagine situations that occur infrequently, if at all, and exploring the depths of your desires. Men tend to have core thematic fantasies that they can return to again and again, he adds, and "then there are fantasies that men would enjoy in the way they surf TV, exploring what catches their eye or their mood. Perhaps one of the simplest male sexual fantasies is just having his partner direct the sex script for the night.
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